Okay, I have finally accpeted the fact that I can not do this on my own and we have a new administrator. Her name is Rebekah ~theunluckystar (https://www.deviantart.com/theunluckystar) She is great, love her.
I assume that when people add this community to their watch list they want to become members, so let me set a couple things straight. By just adding the community to your watch list does not mean that you are a member, you still need to send a note requesting to be one. You are more than welcome to watch the community but if you are watching it because you think that will make you a member you are sorely mistaken. So watching to watch=great! Watching to become member=:(
So